Chengiza Xamidova
Mоther

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Introduction

Hello, dear readers! My name is Chengiza, and I decided to write this book because the questions of motherhood, fatherhood, family, and life deeply and personally concern me. Around us, there is much pain and misunderstanding related to how we treat life, children, and those who have not yet come into the world. I want to help everyone reading these lines to reflect, rethink, and find a path to love, responsibility, and harmony. Why can some women not conceive, while others face the choice of keeping the child or having an abortion? What lies behind these fateful decisions? What is the role of the father in these processes? Why do some parents abandon their children, while others are ready to give everything for them? What do sacred scriptures say about this, what do psychology and medicine say, and what do esotericism and mythology say? These questions are not just scientific or religious topics. They are questions of life and death, love and responsibility, karma and destiny. We live in a world where technologies allow creating life artificially, where moral guidelines are sometimes blurred, and spiritual values are forgotten. In this book, I want to show that a child is not just a biological fact but a gift from the Almighty, carrying light and hope within. We will talk about why abortions are not just a medical procedure but a grave sin with deep consequences for the soul and body. Why the father's role in this matter is no less important than the mother's role, and how a man's irresponsibility can lead to tragedies. We will consider what surrogate motherhood and adoption are and how these phenomena affect the destinies of children and parents. We will delve into the depths of religious teachings, scientific research, and psychological theories to understand how to preserve the sanctity of life and build real, strong families. This book is an invitation to awareness, love, and responsibility. If you are ready to embark on this journey with me – welcome! May this book become a source of strength, wisdom, and hope for you.

Chapter 2.

Statistics and Scale of the Abortion

Problem Worldwide: A Perspective Considering Fathers' Responsibility

Abortion is one of the most acute and painful topics in modern society. Around 45 million abortions occur worldwide each year. This is a huge number that reflects not only a medical but also a social, psychological, and spiritual problem.

Why are there so many abortions?

There are many reasons:

• economic difficulties,

• social pressure,

• fears,

• lack of knowledge,

• absence of support, and often – irresponsibility and indifference on the part of fathers.

Men who are not ready to accept their role and responsibility often become the reason why women take this difficult step.

The role of the father is key and irreplaceable

Fatherhood is not just a biological fact but a spiritual and moral obligation. Without the support and involvement of the man, a woman often finds herself alone facing a choice that changes her life forever. Indifference, fear, unwillingness to take responsibility – all this leads to tragedy, leaving deep wounds on the soul and body. Sacred scriptures of various religions state that terminating life is a grave sin, and responsibility lies with both parents. A man who pushes or forces a woman to have an abortion bears no less karmic responsibility than the woman herself.

Consequences of abortions

Physical:

• complications,

• problems with future pregnancies,

• chronic diseases.

Psychological:

• guilt,

• depression,

• anxiety,

• relationship problems.

Spiritual:

• karmic debts,

• violation of the laws of life and nature.

Why can't women conceive?

We will examine this question in detail in a separate chapter, considering it from different perspectives:

Medicine:

• hormonal disorders,

• infections,

• stress,

• ecology.

Psychology:

• fears,

• internal blocks,

• traumas.

Religion and esotericism:

• karmic causes,

• soul lessons,

• spiritual trials.

Mythology and culture:

• symbolism and significance of childbirth in different traditions.

• IVF – a modern challenge

In vitro fertilization helps many couples but also raises its own questions – ethical, spiritual, and psychological. How should we properly approach this process? What are the pros and cons from the perspective of science and religion? We will discuss this as well.

Chapter 3.

Why Women Cannot Conceive: A Comprehensive View

Pregnancy is a complex and delicate process influenced by many factors. When a woman faces infertility, it becomes a challenge not only for her but for the entire family. Understanding the causes of infertility helps find the right path to healing and harmony. Medical Causes- Modern medicine identifies many factors affecting a woman’s ability to conceive: Hormonal disorders such as thyroid imbalance, polycystic ovary syndrome, menstrual cycle irregularities.

1. Inflammatory processes and infections in reproductive organs.

2. Anatomical features – blocked fallopian tubes, fibroids, adhesions.

3. Age – fertility declines with age.

4. Stress and chronic fatigue, which affect hormonal balance and immunity.

5. Environmental factors – pollution, harmful habits.

Psychological Causes- A woman’s psyche plays a huge role in her ability to become a mother: Fears and anxieties related to pregnancy and motherhood.

1. Unresolved emotional traumas, including childhood ones.

2. Conflicts within the family and with the partner.

3. Feelings of guilt, stress, and depression.

4. Unconscious resistance to pregnancy caused by internal conflicts.

Religious and Esoteric Causes- In spiritual traditions, infertility is often seen as a soul’s lesson or karmic trial: The soul may choose the timing and circumstances of its incarnation. Karmic debts and unfinished lessons from past lives. The need for inner work and spiritual growth before accepting a child. Energetic blocks in the body and aura that hinder conception. Mythology and Culture -In many cultures and mythologies, childbirth is connected with divine gifts and trials: In ancient legends, infertility was often perceived as a sign of divine punishment or test. Rituals and ceremonies aimed at purification and preparation for motherhood. The symbolism of birth as the soul’s transition from one state to another.

Why Is It Important to Understand All These Aspects?

Understanding the complex causes of infertility helps not only to find medical treatment but also to accept the situation, work on oneself, harmonize relationships, and grow spiritually. This is the path to healing and finding true joy in motherhood.

Chapter 4.

Fathers’ Responsibility and the Role of Men in Motherhood and Abortion Issues

Motherhood is a sacred gift and a great responsibility.

But it should not be forgotten that the responsibility for the child’s life and the family’s future lies not only with the woman but also with the man – the father. The man is the head of the family, the keeper of the lineage, and his role in matters of pregnancy, childbirth, and child-rearing is critically important.

Why is the father’s role so important?

1. A man gives life to a child together with the woman and must be ready to take responsibility for this life.

2. Fatherly support and love are one of the main pillars for a woman during pregnancy and child-rearing.

3. Without the man’s involvement and support, a woman often finds herself alone facing a difficult choice, which increases the risk of deciding in favor of abortion.

4. A man who shows indifference, fear, or pressure becomes the cause of tragedy – the termination of a life given by the Almighty.

Men who force women to have abortions: a grave crime against life and God

Especially severe and frightening is the situation when a man himself forces a woman to have an abortion – due to his desire to preserve freedom, avoid responsibility, or because the child is not the gender he wanted. Such behavior is not just irresponsibility; it is a direct rebellion against the Almighty who gives life and determines the fate of every child. Refusing to accept a child because of its gender is a manifestation of the deepest disrespect for the gift of life and a violation of divine order. Forcing an abortion is murder for which there is no forgiveness, as all sacred books and religious teachings proclaim. A man who forces a woman to destroy a child becomes an accomplice in a grave sin and spiritual crime that entails serious karmic consequences.

Consequences of men’s irresponsibility

The woman is left alone with a difficult choice and often makes the decision to abort under pressure or fear. Men who refuse fatherhood often suffer deep psychological traumas – guilt, shame, inner emptiness. Families break apart, children remain unsupported, leading to social and spiritual problems. A father’s irresponsibility is not just a personal mistake but a violation of spiritual laws and karmic burden.

What do sacred scriptures and spiritual teachings say?

1. Terminating life is a grave sin, and responsibility lies with both parents.

2. A man who does not protect and support the life of his child loses his dignity and spiritual status. Fatherhood is not just a biological fact but a sacred duty requiring maturity, love, and responsibility. How can a man become a worthy father?

3. Accept responsibility for his actions and the life he creates.

4. Be a support and pillar for the woman, especially during pregnancy and child-rearing.

Learn to understand and respect the value of life and family. Work on himself, overcoming fears and personal limitations. Participate in the upbringing and spiritual development of the child.

Chapter 5.

IVF: Pros and Cons from the Perspective of Science and Religion

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