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Copyright
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Copyright © Charly Cox 2019
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Source ISBN: 9780008348175
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Version: 2019-09-12
Praise for She Must Be Mad
‘This book of poetry and prose is divine … so refreshing yet familiar’
– Cecelia Ahern
‘Charly constantly astounds me with how inspired she is … [Her] poetry really encapsulates what it is to be a young woman. All the tensions and anxieties and new discoveries’
– Pandora Sykes
‘Prose and poems that have you laughing, crying and questioning your own life in no time’
– Glamour
‘Thoughtful, funny and wistful’
– Independent
‘Brave and Beautiful’
– Stylist
‘Charly’s writing is staggeringly impressive’
– ELLE
Epigraph
We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.
Kurt Vonnegut
Contents
Cover
Title Page
Copyright
Praise for She Must Be Mad
Epigraph
Foreword by Elizabeth Day
Introduction
Objectify me
Love me
Suffocate me
Validate me
Acknowledgements
About the Author
Also by the Author
About the Publisher
Foreword by Elizabeth Day
I first met Charly Cox in a hotel suite, which makes it sound like an illicit romantic assignation. I suppose, in truth, the reality was not so very far removed given the instantaneous nature of our connection. I loved her straight away, with a ferocity reserved for only the most special of kindred spirits.
I knew her by reputation only, after discovering one of her poems online and finding myself laughing at one line, wincing in recognition by the next and weeping at the last. I followed her on Instagram where she was funny and self-deprecating and talented (and beautiful, of course, but this was the least important). Everything she posted got thousands of likes. Of course it did. Everything she posted was brilliant. Everything she posted had heart.
When I met her IRL, she was even better. Yes, she had heart. But she also had soul. She claimed to be 23 but really I knew she must be lying because her entire being was shot through with the gold thread of wisdom. I had that thing – that curious, embarrassing thing that you barely ever feel when you’re grown up – of wanting desperately for this woman to like me back.
We were in the hotel to do a series of readings to mark its opening, while various guests from a party downstairs were shepherded through the suite to listen to us. It was surreal. At one point, Charly was standing in front of a bathtub performing one of her poems while I was perched on the edge of a four-poster bed reading a passage from a novel. Afterwards, we bonded over the glorious weirdness of the evening. Now, she is my dear friend.
So you won’t be getting one of those objective, academic forewords where I analyse the cadence and rhythm of her language, wonderful though it is. No, this is a wholeheartedly subjective take on why you should read this collection.
If you’ll allow me to tell you, from my unabashedly biased position as Charly’s friend, why I believe you should read Validate Me, it is because Charly gives voice to the things we think but never manage to say. She gives expression to the intangible qualities of loneliness and alienation in this superficially connected world, and in doing so she makes us feel heard. More than that, she makes us feel understood. She probes darkness with the same tenderness as she tests the light, from the position of someone who has experienced severe and debilitating episodes of depression, but who has found the strength never to let this illness define her wholeness.
The book you have in your hands is precious. It will make you laugh. It will make you cry. It will make you nod your head in affirmation. And when you turn the final page, it will make you understand a little bit more of what it is to be human.
Introduction
Are you the friend that takes sweet secret gratification in others’ failures? Do you like to indulge in delicious disastrous irony? How about oxymorons? Do you have a few moments to spare to flick through a book that warrants no need for more attention than a glance at your phone? Or perhaps – here’s the clincher – are you a person that has a 4G connection and is currently alive on this here planet?
If you answered yes to any of the above, please take a seat whilst you sign away a few precious cells of your brain to the validation of my mental breakdown. A little scribble of thought with the tiny Argos pen you stole in your childhood is all I need. With that too take your own validation, you’re a climate change warrior, that could’ve been single use. Can I get you anything? A dog meme? An old photo of Paul Danan off his tits? A Trump tweet to make you question what is left of this already heavy and futile opinion on life? Well, get up and get it yourself because I am currently circling around Praed Street, Paddington, London, dictating this into my phone having just strolled out of Accident and Emergency with little but an offer of self-sectioning and a plastic festival-like wristband with my name and date of birth on it as a keepsake. I am busy and now you are too, so Lady Gaga and Piers Morgan can wait, we have got a lot to try and decipher about how it got this far.
Nothing riles me more [this is a lie as you’re about to read a book which is essentially a long list of things that rile me to the point of medication punctuated only by rhyme and the rare smatter of hope] than an introduction whereby the writer refers to the infancy of the book’s process. It leaves me with a bored, bourgeois sour taste of someone else’s self-importance, but as I’ve been hailed as an #instapoet I fear I owe it to some sanctimonious troll to exceed a slither of expectation. So let us suck the soured serotonin out of my life lemon.
I pre-empted this. I knew almost so certainly I was on the cusp of complete digital burnout that I pitched this collection thinking I was saving myself from it. Charly from the past, all omniscient, and evidently omnipotent, cackled her way through a Google doc, tripping over a cocktail of www.woes that she knew were exhausting but perhaps important and valid and witty, and hit send. Charly from the past but a few weeks later delighted at the idea of being able to use poetic licence for the first time in her sad, sad life. What fun! You need not sell the last fragment of your young and underdeveloped soul and past trauma! You can use FORESIGHT! And now Charly in the present is furiously walking to Marylebone station at 5am because her contactless card doesn’t work so she can’t get the tube and is desperately aware that everyone is staring at her in the night before’s party dress, mascara on her chin and a hospital bracelet. She’s also talking into her phone in third person, so I need not break this to tell you how far away from the grand dreams of poetic licence she is. This collection, albeit caricatured, is true. Some of it was written on grand spanking highs in expensive hotels in Los Angeles where I (ever the optimist in irony) searched for physical validation, a boyfriend, stardom and a good Instagram opportunity; some of it in bed wheezy on Venlafaxine, Propranolol and an algorithm that hates my content; some of it in Ubers and on trains; some of it to the soundtrack of the men in my local, little countryside pub; some of it leaving a hospital working out if I shouldn’t have run away from it. But all of it was written on my phone and all of it is because of the curse of exactly that.
There. That’s how we got here. This thing in my hand that stole all of my smarts so it could preface its own name with them.
Hello, my name is Charly Cox and I am code-dependent. So would you please, please just validate me.
My rhetoric is changing
My need for love confused
I’ve lost my inner monologue
And sold it all for views.
Click to Accept the Terms and Conditions
Shout a little louder
Come a little closer
Let me lead you to the void
The blank expanse
Let yourself fly in a seat
That is pants
Boom across a room
That cares for you little
Wipe off a slick
Of your new hungry spittle
That we’ll sell you as gold
Come grab a feel
Of a hand you can’t hold
Come be a person
That you never knew
Feel grand and feel gorgeous
Then feel worthless and through
Take a trip down the tubes
Get settled in
Welcome, you’ve signed up
It’s all about to begin.
Validate Me Part 1
Thought as much
Famed as such
Faked the touch
Of what excites us
Who we are and will always be
Unites us
But we seldom invite that side enough
Swapped it out to sell new love
As though it’s not inside us
Think too much
Fame is such
A thing we’ll fake as something that excites us
Spin it until we’re spinning plates we can’t dine off
Starving
Is this what we’ll die of?
Vapid monsters in a sea of breeding nonsense, jealousy
Portraits of unfulfilled and pretty
Best lives or misery
Rooted to mis-sold faith in a downloaded commodity
Do you like me?
Do you like me?
I don’t know who I am any more
I don’t know who you are
Fascinate me as I fabricate me
Castigate me as I congratulate me
Salivate as I let you navigate me
Masturbate at how inadequate I find me
I’m putting it all out to see
No idea of what I want or who I am sans vanity
No idea of how to please our grumbling society
No idea of where I can slip off silently
I am halves with who I’m wholly miscalculating
Please, would you just validate me?
#candid
You only take photos when you think something might die
You only post photos hoping that it’ll survive.
#fitspo
Smelling of fags and biscuits
Embers the colour of the bits that I missed.
The Party
The door opens quickly just as my earring falls out and breaks. Steph catches it and puts it in her pocket, seamlessly, and stares confidently at the man leaning and swaying on the frame. ‘We’re here for the party. Right house?’ She says this with a vague tone of annoyance because it’s bastard-freezing outside. Neither of us have tights on and he’s just stood there gawping, assessing, working out if he’ll get off with one of us by the dregs of the evening. Music crawls in muted tendrils down the tall staircase behind him. No bass.
‘Well, hello girls. Who are you then?’ An over-exaggerated mockney accent dribbles down his polo; when had people started to think that being mindful of your privilege meant performing a class act?
‘This isn’t Mahiki, mate. Let us in, would you?’ It wasn’t, thank God. It was a flat in Denmark Hill, with a door off to the back of a newsagents. Our legs are bare, shaking, and my mind clamours for space as it beats itself into a pulp wondering how I could’ve crammed another cigarette in-between the Uber and this unnecessary faux formality. ‘Robbie invited us,’ I say, meek in Steph’s confidence, staring. I feel shiny. My face feels filled with obvious pores. I feel an intense fraudulence, which I’m sure is about to be exposed. I do not look like my photos. I am catfishing myself, at best. ‘’Course he did,’ he stares at my boobs and Steph’s legs. It feels almost like a compliment that neither of us would ever admit felt like one, we’ve spent enough time slagging off how Robbie always must be seen with the next hot girl and how he always has a line of them waiting, and how horribly disgusting and misogynistic that holds. But to be assumed to be one of them? An ego boost. ‘So can we come in or what? Bloody hell.’ This is boring.
‘Yeah. Yeah, come up.’ He steadies himself on the bannister and the noise of the party engulfs us as he swings open the kitchen door. Everyone stops for a moment.
‘LADS! FOUND THESE TWO LOOKING FOR ROBBIE ON THE DOORSTEP,’ he shouts with smackable smugness. Some roll their eyes whilst others cheer, others pay no attention at all and the girls move in closer to the men they’re sat in front of.
‘Drink?’ Steph glares.
‘Bathroom first. I’ll sort out my face. Pour us one in there. Then let’s give this a go.’
I hadn’t been to a house party in years, the coy butterfly-sizzle of excitement about the hours of pre-game are lost and forgotten. Nothing about being stood in somebody else’s bathroom with a cheap bottle of vodka between our legs felt naughty, it felt a bit grim and regressive. The fists banging on the door outside were not of rowdy teenagers who’d overdone it, not of new-found couples burrowing away for the night for a private snog, but of four thirty-year-olds after the cold, flat porcelain of the toilet to rack up lines of cocaine, which they’d later learn was actually ketamine. We let them bang.
‘Remind me why we’re here again?’ Steph screws back on the cap of the vodka, wrestling with the cheap teeth on the cap that won’t quite align. Impatient.
I ignore her, transfixed in my own reflection. I do not look like my photos and although I have spent countless lost, and wasted, hours studying the planes of my face to an almost scientific degree on my phone, it feels like the first time I’d really seen myself in months. Vulgar. Vile. I do not look like my photos. Of all the places to be incarcerated as a fraud, tonight’s setting couldn’t have been more perfect. As we’d walked flat-palmed, pushing doors in the dark to find the toilet, I had spotted five men I’d at some point matched with on Hinge or Bumble that had later gone on to ignore my witty, well-thought and, through a series of screenshots to friends, well-vetted opening lines. I had arrived at a place of uncloaking.
The banging becomes more incessant and grows to a kick that shoots the brass lock up and off its holder, the four men fall in crying with laughter, pulling each other down to pull themselves up in a twisted rugby scrum. I may not have looked like my pictures but they certainly didn’t look like men. Little boys, still.
In the kitchen, it is much of the same tired scene we had left in the past of our pre-youth, where we were too young to be doing any of this at all but still stabbing at the perceived rituals of fun that we’d learned from films. Scattered plastic shells of shots and stepped-on crisps nestle deeper into the thin cracks of the wooden floor. No one here was having fun. Everyone is desperately ferrying around in a painted distraction, feigning merriment, if only to not feel cheated of the future they thought they’d be living for an hour or so. Thinking they’d have kids by now. A house. A holiday or two a year. A career. But here we were, acting fifteen, feeling forty-five, grappling for an artsy shot by the plugged-in disco lamp, rehashing unread articles that made one of us sound cultured and the other aggressive.
Empty.
Your Boyfriend in LA Loves Me from Across the Ocean
When was ‘psycho’ so sexy
Yet still castigated?
Everyone here is married
But they’re all fucking, faking
When was dumbing it down
Cashing in as enough?
Who sold you the fear
That you need to be seen as in love?
They grin doe-eyed and warm
In every photo you post
Happy Valentine’s, Babe
I Love You The Most
It all screens so perfect
But I scream DENIAL
Am I bitter and twisted?
Just crave a number to dial?
Scroll
Where are you finding these partners?
Will you teach me your rules?
What do you serve them for starters?
Are you drugging these fools?
How are they harnessed
So tight to your hip?
Bzzzzzzzzzzzz
Oh
A DM!
‘I miss you gorgeous’
… sorry love, it’s him.
Mercury in Retrograde
We are ruled by
A fool’s literature
Our settled Sunday readings
Map out an astrology-pulled apology
For the curves and quirks in our hapless week’s psychology
Clutching a passionate grasp around instruction
That limits our habits to the moon’s and sun’s seduction
We are led by the hand, willing participants in our own abduction
Lured by the romance of another world’s aura – chunked construction
Running blind from our own control
Two thirsty dogs lapping from a cosmic bowl
Two sapient dogs lassoing a leash to their own soul
Dutifully bowing to boldly meditate
Around Leo’s planetary heavyweights
Obediently howling at a weekly Mailchimp email to celebrate
A half-hashed understanding of Mercury retrograde
Cocking a leg to salute a sold faith
Doesn’t the whole infinite eclectic point sort of dissipate
When we hand a stranger a title that lets them control our own fate?
‘I Know I Can’t Talk but …’
Darling
You and I are important
And what I thought to be suffering
Was an inkling and a drain
But what the world around you is doing
Is seldom progressive
Just shouting SAME
SHAME
SHAME
Never looking back at the woman
Who was privileged enough to realise
Those sentiments were a gain.
#whatafeministlookslike
Dyed of its natural conditions
Died of its misconvictions.
Aesthetic
The glamour is better
When you’re less put together
It’s real it is felt
It’s authentic
All that you are and all you exude
Weighs out its aesthetic.
Self Care
There is only a trace of anaesthetic
In the aesthetics
There is no truth, no freedom
No Holy Spirit’s leading
In the clang of rose-gold copper self care
There is only growth in muddled despair
There is help in the hurting
In the muddied soul searching
In pulling it all out of mind for your eyes to see
It’s mad – a cruel charade
For anyone to sell back your sanity
In bubble baths
Face masks
And breakfast in a bowl from Anthropologie.
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